And it was sweet

In High school English, our teacher had us read dozens of Indian Animal Parables. You have probably heard the one about the blind men and the elephant. That’s a classic. There is another one I’ve always remembered that was more meaningful to me. It goes: A man was walking in the wilderness and realized he […]

What’s your destination?

What is your destination?  Do you know?  Are you letting the the route dominate your mind and forgetting what’s really important. And I’m talking metaphorically. I’m a planner normally.  Well by comparison to my wife, I fly by the seat of my pants but by most standards I’m a bit obsessive with plans.  When my […]

Reinvent your life in four steps

Some times it takes the world slapping us in the back of the head (hopefully figuratively speaking) to realize what we are doing isn’t working anymore.  Who we’ve become isn’t who we want to be.  Losing a job, having spouse leave or just watching something amazing you’ve worked for fall apart can be scary.  It […]

20 in 20

I’m sure I’ve written about this tool, trick, hack before but it definitely is worth repeating. It is probably the most useful bit of homework that my clients enjoy. Well “enjoy” might not be the right word. Maybe “productive”. Basically it is a free writing exercise with a few bounds. It can be used to […]

You can do anything

You can do anything you set your mind to but you can’t do everything. Really.  The clue is right there in the sentence.  If you are trying to accomplish everything than you really haven’t set your mind to something.  You can have more than one goal but it definitely helps to be able to pick […]

How were my houseplants doing?

I’m reading The 10 Laws of Career Reinvention by Pamela Mitchell.  I’m not that far in, so I can’t really give you a book report yet but there was one point that I felt was particularly poignant.  Pamela wrote about how someone, Stacey, was so excited about Pamela’s job at the time.  Stacey loved the […]

Voices Within – excerpt

Wolski Success Partners Voices Inside Presentation The negative thoughts rushing through your mind are not the enemy.  They are not things to be fought, rejected or contained.  They are protective instincts triggered in physical structures of your mind.  Just because they are part of you and are trying to protect you, doesn’t mean that they are […]