3 Proven Rituals That Will Make You Motivated

Duke professor and bestselling author Dan Ariely explains what scientific research says will get you motivated and help you get more done.

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“You’re not on fire,” things dad say that apply to business

My daughter was trying out for all state band over the weekend.  We got there about an hour early for her to warm up her instrument and her fingers.  About fifteen minutes into practicing, the fire alarm went off.  I escorted her out and found a stump her a stump a bit away from the crowd.  I propped up her music sheets so she could keep practicing while everyone else stood, watching the doors.  “Keep practicing,” I said.  After a few minutes, the fire trucks came.  “Keep practicing,” I said.  A few more minutes and a few more fire trucks came.  My daughter looked at me and said, “I now have a reason to be nervous,” indicating the fire trucks.

“Why?” I asked.  “What is the worst that could happen?”

“I don’t know.  There are so many fire trucks.”

“You are not on fire.  The worst that would happen is that the private school hosting the auditions would burn down.  There has been plenty of warnings, so no one will get hurt.  The auditions will get rescheduled, which will give you more time to practice.  The only one hurt here will be the insurance companies that will have to buy the kids a new school.  There is nothing to get nervous about.”  I paused a moment.  “Keep practicing.”

It is so normal for people to get nervous about things that won’t really affect them and are out of their control.  Ask yourself what the worst thing that could happen.  Prepare for that and keep practicing.

10 Things You Should Know About Goals

Philip and Karen Smith/Getty Images Setting and reaching goals is a mainstay topic in research across a range of disciplines, including psychology, neuroscience, marketing, and communications. Below is a survey of 10 recent findings about goals, chosen from these and other topic areas, that throw some light on the ups and […]

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I am not that kind of coach

I’ve heard others say that the universe has a plan for you and you just need to trust in that plan.  I am not that kind of coach.

I’ve heard others say that every bad thing that happened to you is just the universes way of protecting you from a greater harm you weren’t aware of.  I am not that kind of coach.

I’ve heard others say that everything has a vibration, even thoughts.  Things are attracted to those that vibrate on the same frequency.  All you have to do is learn to vibrate at the right frequency.  I am not that kind of coach.

I’ve heard others say that your ego is working against you.  It, and not you, is the center of all that is negative in your thoughts and life.  I am not that kind of coach.

I’ve heard others say that you are unique and beautiful and your authentic self is love.  I am not that kind of coach.

I’ve heard others say that you can attract riches by putting a five dollar bill in each shoe (really).  I am not that kind of coach.

I am the kind of coach that teaches effort, personal responsibility and preparation.  I am the kind of coach that will call you a liar when you use excuses.  I am the kind of coach that believes you can choose to settle for the life others plan for you or embrace the life you create for yourself.  I am that kind of coach.

The question is, what kind of client are you?